Conscious Lifestyle

Stage 5 of life transformation – Being you

This is the final stage of your metamorphosis journey. The adult butterfly is now out and about. It is flying strongly, being a gorgeous self, looking for opportunities to reproduce. It entertains others – even us humans and reminds us of the beauty of nature and life. 

In this stage you are shining your beautiful new light and embracing being you – the new you.

You search for new ways, master your skills, gain new knowledge, and are not afraid to fly. You lead others by a beautiful example and look to scale things. You might pause for a moment, gather your strength and try a new flying technique. You are being true to yourself and serving others. Especially in more spiritual transformations, you are living from your heart. 

This stage might feel effortless and fun. You feel good because the entire metamorphosis has now happened. You and your life have transformed into something that was a dream a way back.

So, always remember it and be in this moment as much as possible. Because deep within you, another dream is being born soon. And soon you notice yourself going through another cycle of transformation.

But this time, you know what is to come. Or maybe this transformation is much smaller than the one you just went through.

Which chakras should you focus on at this stage?

All chakras should be balanced to make the most out of this beautiful stage, but the focus should be on the Heart Chakra.

When your Heart Chakra is open, you shine all types of love towards all living beings and you. That allows you to be of service and fulfill your soul’s mission.

Allow your Solar Plexus Chakra also to shine. You need your inner power to reach higher on this stage.

Lastly, start exploring your 5D Navel Chakra. When it is open, you connect to the oneness of this planet, Universe, and all the other galaxies and Universes. And can bring your soul mission to the community.

How to know if you are currently on this stage?

– You will know, and it shows to others as well. 

– You see yourself mastering the new you.

– You are not afraid of flying and trying.

– You see yourself being the person you dreamt.

– Things will feel light and loving – even easy occasionally.

– You are looking to scale things.

How to be you, and what happens next?

Enjoy this stage and how it feels to fly.

Focus on living from your heart to shine love.

Focus on keeping your Navel Chakra in balance to be connected to the greater community.

Allow your Solar Plexus Chakra to bring your inner strength to the surface.

Be prepared to hear the new dream that might be on the horizon after a while. 

Everything in life is a cycle, and so is your metamorphosis journey.

So remember to practice mindfulness in each stage and be connected with your soul – because it will always guide you on your journey if you listen.

Heal with me for a sec.​

We all go through bigger and smaller life transformations. In what part of your life are you currently in this stage?

Essi Koski-Lammi is a Conscious Interior Designer, Inner Alignment Healer, and Spiritual Business Advisor. She believes that how we live, work, and care for ourselves is deeply influenced by the connection between the spaces within and around us. With a diploma in interior design, over 22 years of experience in energy healing and meditation, MSC in Business and a strong background in global branding and marketing, Essi combines her expertise to empower women to transform their homes, businesses, and lives — and most importantly, themselves — so that every part of life feels aligned and truly their own.