How to create a home that calms you
Homes that calm you are created based on different aspects, which go way beyond just having white or beige walls.
Designing for calm isn’t either about following trends.
It’s about understanding you. Understanding your body, your mind and your life. And most importantly, your version of peace.
Calm colors are personal
In color psychology, shades like blue and green are said to calm the nervous system.
And they do. Think about green forest or the blue ocean.
White makes any space bigger and lighter, beige more grounding.
But calming doesn’t come from research alone — it comes from what kind of relationship you have with the color. If a certain shade reminds you of a childhood outfit that you hated, it doesn’t matter what psychology says.
Choose colors that feel calming to you.
Calm is found in harmony
Calm means accepting all those different items and pieces of furniture you already have at home. And making them work together in harmony.
Each piece has its own story.
Its own place and purpose.
Calm doesn’t mean everything looks the same, but that together they create a calming and harmonious atmosphere.
Calm is also about safety — in all forms
Calm spaces relax your nervous system, so you feel safe at home. Besides basic safety measures, safety can look different for everyone.
Safety can look like:
Having your grandmother’s old chair in your reading nook
Having family pictures in living room
Using non-toxic decor items or materials
Add your home items that that boost your inner safety.
Calm is in the flow
In calm spaces, the flow, room, and furniture arrangement truly work. How your home functions affects how you feel.
A calm home often has:
Flow that supports your mornings, not fights them
Furniture arrangement that feels intuitive
Spaces where each person can retreat after a stressful day, even if it’s just a corner
How can you bring more flow into your home?
Calm is in silence
Acoustics matter much more than you realize.
Some homes feel overstimulating simply because of the way sound moves in them. Or because of the sounds that get through the windows.
Echoes, sharp noises, constant background distractions, car sounds, train sounds, neighbours, all these keep your body on alert — even if your mind thinks you’re used to them.
Add in soft textiles, rugs, curtains, cushions, and natural materials as they help absorb and soften sound.
Calm is in what’s not there
Messy home or clutter all around your home activates your mind and body. Clean and clutter-free space helps your nervous system soften, so that you can feel more calm.
So clean and organize your home, usually that is the very first step to bring more calmness into your life.
Calm starts within
You and your home mirror each other. Your calm creates a calm home.
So focus on cultivating inner calm at home and notice how your home calms you.
Heal with me for a sec.
Choose one of the above points and start making your home more calm.
Which one spoke to you the most right now?
Essi Koski-Lammi
Essi Koski-Lammi is a Conscious Interior Designer, Inner Alignment Healer, and Spiritual Business Advisor. She believes that how we live, work, and care for ourselves is deeply influenced by the connection between the spaces within and around us. With a diploma in interior design, over 22 years of experience in energy healing and meditation, MSC in Business and a strong background in global branding and marketing, Essi combines her expertise to empower women to transform their homes, businesses, and lives — and most importantly, themselves — so that every part of life feels aligned and truly their own.
