Death is the ultimate freedom
Death can be a difficult thing to talk about. There is so much fear around it. It is almost taboo unless you have recently lost someone. But death is natural. It is a part of this Universe on so many levels. It ends something so that something else can start. Death is present when summer turns to autumn and winter - it is a part of nature.
Death can be a difficult thing to talk about. There is so much fear around it. It is almost taboo unless you have recently lost someone.
But death is natural. It is a part of this Universe on so many levels. It ends something so that something else can start. Death is present when summer turns to autumn and winter – it is a part of nature.
I am writing this with my most vulnerable self there is. I am opening up about what I have recently experienced because I know this will help someone going through the same. I still feel grief, sadness, and other emotions, and I even have a broken heart. But, I promise that you will feel light after reading what I am about to say.
Death starts a transformation
Death visited my life when I lost my beloved grandmother. She was – and still is so important to me. My company and I are named after her. She was the best promoter of joy and love. A firm believer that we should always ask for help from the Angels.
She was a strong fighter who had let go of the war trauma and other negativity. She loved fully – and she was loved fully by so, so many people. She was a true self-healer who lived at 103.5 years old and took beautiful care of her body, mind, and soul.
When someone close to you dies, it starts a significant transformation within their souls and also in you.
That happened to me as well – and I was not expecting it.
When a person changes dimensions, the soul leaves the body.
The soul then travels to this beautiful place, where it looks at its lived life from a distance. Then depending on the soul´s ultimate journey, it chooses a new home – either in a human body, as a spirit guide, travels to another star, etc.
As the soul is free – it can be in so many different places in one go. So it can also guide you from the above, even if it has chosen another form of a new existence.
I see this a lot with my clients, how their deceased loved ones are guiding them all the time. So, death is not the ultimate end.
Death is the ultimate freedom
A few days after my grandmother had changed dimensions, I started feeling anxiety and got a terrible panic attack.
I took some space to meditate and face everything that I was feeling. My anxiety got worse, and I started feeling like I was about to die. The fear of death was present.
I saw myself as a little girl searching for her grandmother in my meditation. And then her spirit suddenly appeared to me. She looked into my eyes full of joy and love and said,
“Essi, my dear, what you are feeling right now is NOT death. You are feeling the emotions that you have not faced before. Death feels so good, and it is the ultimate freedom.”
Feels so good.
The ultimate freedom.
These words truly changed me.
They say when someone dies, and there is a funeral on planet Earth, above, there is a celebration of joy going on to welcome the soul to the ultimate freedom.
Essi Koski-Lammi
Essi Koski-Lammi is a business mentor, intuitive healer and conscious interior designer who works at the intersection of identity, business and space. She supports women founders and entrepreneurs in stepping into the next level of who they are becoming and creating businesses and environments that truly reflect them. With an MSc in Business, a background in global branding and marketing, a diploma in interior design, and over 20 years of experience in meditation and energy healing, Essi brings together strategic clarity and deep inner work. Through her work, women gain the courage to lead their businesses more visibly, make aligned decisions and shape businesses, homes and workspaces that support their growth and wellbeing.
